Again, my Tumblr ain’t working properly. Oh crap!
As I’ve said on my previous post, I’d be attending Desucon this year. Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to go because I haven’t received my costume on time. I got it only today even though my friend sent it to me two weeks before the con. So I’ve decided that I’ll go to the next con if there is any. However, if not then I can probably organize one. 🙂
Anyway, here is my costume in its plastic. I bought it at Loki’s Haven . My high school friend is the owner and the designer of the made to order costumes there.
Tada!!! This is me fitting Kagome’s fuku.
Do I look okay? :p hehe…
Harbour Cafe Stavanger is a restaurant with a small bowling hall and a bar. My bf and I were there yesterday to celebrate the birthday of our friend. This was actually our third time there and we never get tired because they have one of the best foods in town!
Everything is clean. Not just the restaurant but also the bathrooms.
The package deal is expensive and so as the single serving meals. It costs around 400 norske kroner So I don’t think it would be wise to eat there everyday if you’re on a tight budget. However the meat servings are big so you’ll always leave with a full stomach afterwards.
Harbour Cafe and Bowl is definitely one of the best nightlife places in Stavanger. I recommend this restaurant for everyone who wants to do more than drinking on weekends and/or birthdays.
Sometimes, I don’t understand boys when it comes to friendship. They are great friends but when they are friends with someone whom they like, they use their friendship and charm to court the girl and when they find out that the girl does not like them as a lover then they would just give up both the courting and even the friendship.
Met a guy 10 years ago. This was not an ordinary meeting since we only chatted on YM and on SMS. He’s a tall, handsome and pale looking man on his late 20’s. I met him at a shopping mall near my place. I didn’t like the idea of meeting strangers but I got bored that time and we were chatting for almost a year already. When I first laid my eyes on him I felt something good and happiness filled me up. Gosh he’s a hunk, I told myself. After that meeting we agreed to meet again and as time goes by, we became good friends, best friends and we started to have a mutual understanding.
To make the story short, I suddenly got a boyfriend and it wasn’t him. He got surprised (I think) and he started to avoid me a bit for some reasons. I think it was because of my ex that time being jealous and etc. We still remained our communication and meetings. Then I had to move to Norway to be with my parents, so our friendship was put to test. I met my current bf now here and introduced him to my guy best friend as a friend via chat and webcam. Sad to say it didn’t go well and they started arguing.
Months later I got a new boyfriend and it was my friend who I introduced to my best friend. After that my best friend got cold on me and he seldom chats with me again.
Then some years later he got a girlfriend. As his best friend, I was really looking forward to meet his gf but I think that he won’t let me. He’s making alibi just to avoid me.
It hurts to be ignored by a best friend without any explanations or any warnings. Maybe I’m just naive that I only see the positive side of my best friend. But for whatever reason he has, I learned to accept the fact that he has changed and the only thing to deal with it is to let him go. He’s probably tired of me but one thing is for sure, I’m always just a call away whenever he needs me, ‘coz that what friends are for.
“We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere.”
|Ned Starks, portrayed by Sean Bean. He almost made me cry! Such a strong character!|
The Game of Thrones t.v. series is based on George RR Martin’s novels. (For more info check Wikipedia ).
Commuting is always a challenge for anyone going to work or school. It could be fun for some but for most it is annoying especially when the bus is not on time.
I’m not a cynical person nor someone who judges someone by his/her looks but I do easily get terrified by strangers especially old men flirting with young girls. Come on, there are lots of women to be flirted with. I was not the only girl on that bus stop. There are five other women on his age too but why me? Why us??
Anyway, whatever the reason he has, I hope that I’m just wrong.
It is not easy to find a man who would do anything for his girlfriend outside marriage. Some men do not take their relationships seriously because they are not yet married. They are in a relationship because of boredom, sex or just for the sake of having a girlfriend.
I asked my boyfriend one time about his thoughts on marriage and he said that he does not believe in it. According to him marriage is almost the same as cohabitation. The only difference is that in marriage the party agrees to undergo a ceremony before living in together in the same house and start a family while in cohabitation, the couple agrees to move in together without any ceremonies or rituals.
I wasn’t surprised nor hurt by his answer. I don’t actually care if he’ll marry me or not as long as he is faithful to me, that is more than enough for me.
However some of my friends reacted negatively on this and they got worried about me. Even my ex bf is worried! (lol) Then they even told me “Are you just going to let this happen? If he really loves you then he would marry you!“. Their reaction for me is normal and understandable since some of us came from a country where circa 80% of the population belongs to the Catholic faith. I told my friends that they do not need to worry for my sake because it is fine with me not to get married. I know and I can feel that my boyfriend truly loves me a lot. He was even the one who told me that no one has the right to cheat on someone even he/she is not yet married. People should not use the “I’m not yet married” excuse to be unfaithful to his/her partner. So I’m happy on how things are going on with us right now.
I do believe that relationships are tested not after the wedding but before the couples have decided to get married. If he really loves you, he won’t bother to look or talk to other women even if you are just his girlfriend. For him, being in a relationship is a commitment that should not be taken for granted.
I’m not saying that I’m against marriage here, my point is that getting married is a choice and any forms of cheating should not be tolerated just because he’s not yet married. Relationships are based on respect. Without respect any relationships (married or not) are weak like a building without a foundation. Without respect, it is difficult to trust your partner and likewise and without trust relationships will not work and not even marriage can save it.
So for those who are asking me repeatedly about when I’m getting married, well my boyfriend and I actually have no plans of getting married but we do have plans of having children someday but who knows what the future brings and if we change our minds someday, then we’ll probably get married! No problem with that.
Strawberry is one of my favorite fruits because it is rich in vitamins and minerals. Also, strawberries make excellent addition to desserts, cakes and shakes. Not only that, it smells really good too.
I’ve been to the grocery last week and got delighted when I found this view. *.*drool*
Each of us had 2 desserts that day. ha ha! yes! We’re spoiled.